should I tell him?

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The other day my bf was showing me something on Instagram and I saw a sexy picture of a girl in his feed. Well I didn't say anything to him at the time but now it's really bothering me. So I went on his phone when he was sleeping and looked at who he follows and there's so many sexy girl accounts! I just hit unfollow on them and I feel like I should tell him that this makes me uncomfortable but I just don't know how or if he's gonna be mad at me? Please let me know what you think! I know he's not cheating on me I just don't like him looking at other girls it makes me feel like I'm not good enough. Am I wrong? 😰😥
Update!
Well I talked to him in the middle of the night, last night and he said that he wouldn't follow any more accounts like that. I honestly couldn't sleep because I felt so guilty and bad about looking on his phone. We've been together for 4 years and this is the only time I've ever done anything like this. Thankfully he wasn't mad at me and he said he understood why I did what I did.

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don't worry girl id be pretty upset too! you should just talk to him about it calmly and tell him that it makes you feel uncomfortable and that you want his eyes to only be on you. if he can't accept that then he isn't worth your time 💞 good luck!

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Wow. I would honestly break up with you. I always warn my guy friends about girls like you because that behavior is unacceptable. You actually went through HIS phone and unfollowed people on HIS account. You have the nerve to do that but you can't even communicate with him?? You had absolutely no right to do that. Sorry, but I hope he sees your behavior as red flags. He has every right to be mad at you.

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If you're comfortable enough to take his phone and unfollow the girls (even secretly) you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about it. But I wouldn't stress about it too much 😊

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If it's making you uncomfortable, talk to him about it. Just say sometime like 'hey, so um you follow a lot of sexy girls on social media and that just makes me uncomfortable, like I'm not good enough. Can we talk about it please'

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Same thing happened to me. Me and hubby both deleted our IG accounts and our problems went away

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I had this Same thing happen to me. I dated a body builder and his Instagram feed was 90% of half clothed woman. I totally lowered my self esteem!! Communication is huge!! Just talk to him bout it. I feel if he truly cares he will fix it. If not.. You may wanna rethink things 😁😁

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No your not wrong for feeling that way at all just tell him how u feel like how u don't think your good enough for him because there are other girls out there who can be more beautiful

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