Need Relationship Help

Eight months ago, I got out of a terrible relationship, and looking for a date (just a date, not a one night stand) I downloaded the tinder app. Well, the very first man I met and went out with is my current boyfriend. He is sweet and kind and handsome and generous and great in bed, all around a wonderful man. However, he is brazilian and had a daughter there. He works here in the same city I live in 3 weeks or so out of every month, but his project is up in April. When we started dating, I told him, "I really enjoy spending time with you, but I am going to try to hold off building a deeper connection with you just because, well you are moving." He agreed but then a month ago he said the "L" word. 
My question is, what do I do? Despite my best intentions, I fell for him, too. But I can't ask him to move here because of his daughter and I'm not sure if I could move to brazil. We have four months together (from now on), but is it worth getting even more hurt in the end? What would you do or what advice would you give your daughter/friend? Is it worth seeing if we can do long distance after he leaves? Lots of his work friends maintain long distance marriages. 
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