Pain during sex? 🙁

Question

So it's been 11 weeks since I gave birth to my beautiful baby girl. And I just had sex for the first time since I had her. And I only did it because I felt bad for the hubby and my doctor said I should try. I didn't care for it and it kind of hurt. The pain was more on the outside and like the clit area and the lower vagina closer to my behind. We even used a condom and lube.

Has anyone else experienced this? Any recommendations?

I'm definitely going to talk to my doctor. But what if I'm never in the mood ever again?! What if my sex drive never comes back?

:(

Answer

It will take a while. I had stitches and I can tell that that area is kind of rigid and it seems weird but like it doesn't stretch at all. It got better after a couple of times of "alone time". It still doesn't feel the greatest but it's def getting better

Answer

When I had my daughter it hurt pretty bad the first couple times but we kept trying and finally the 3-4th time went pretty smooth :) it just takes time to loosen back up lol. If it makes you uncomfortable just explain to you hubs and maybe y'all can try a different position or more lube or even just wait. As a new mom your probably still very tired and likely ain't gotten your spunk back yet 😋 good luck!

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