Is it true that when you have sex with someone for the first time you get attached to them?

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I didn't. I lost my vCard to my second boyfriend. And I never got attached to him in that way. I hate him now. Because of what he put my threw. But I'm very attached to my husband lol I think that's just because we are married. Not because of sex.

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Yes, sex releases a chemical in your brain called vasopressin, which facilitates emotional attachment.

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It absolutely did have that effect for me, but we were incredibly attached to each other in the first place, and I can't feel sexual attraction to strangers so I'll never have a one night stand kind of encounter to compare.

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Guess it depends on the person. Can't say I've ever experienced this.

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It can bring you closer in a relationship like with me and my boyfriend but it won't make you become attached really

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I wasn't. I felt that the whole experience ruined our relationship. It was a very awkward and not so great moment. After all he said was "that felt icky". I felt horrible like I did something wrong. Needless to say no attachment after that.

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I think it honestly depends. The guy I was with for like over a year and who I lost my virginity to always told me I'm only obsessed with him because he was my first. I haven't been able to get over him for a while because I thought that was true, but he just put those thoughts in my head. You might feel attached to whoever, but you'll get over it. I recently met this guy at work and I've already hooked up with him and I forgot all about the guy I lost it to

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Yes and no - yes because you are sharing a very intimate and private part of yourself with someone and then no because you could feel like it was a mistake,  you were embarrassed, or maybe even pitied someone.