I can't stand my MIL! She is so manipulative and is always seeking attention from my husband!!! Yeah I get it, he's your oldest, but at some point you have to let him have his own plans!

So me and my husband's best friend have been planning for a month or so this awesome Batchelor/diaper bash/birthday party for my husband today (his birthday was yesterday) and we put a lot of hard work and have kept is quiet, so that my husband is genuinely surprised. Well his mother txt me and asked me what he was doing today and so I told her what the plans are, this little buttface goes and texts my husband and says to him: "oh you can have a party with your friends and get drunk, but you can't come see your mom on your birthday!"

What part of it is a SURPRISE do you not understand. So then my husband txt me and was like way to go now my mom is upset because you told her I was having a party with the boys when all we are doing is playing cards!! (You think that's all you're doing but in an hour or so you all will be leaving to go to Kansas City and having the time of your life!)

So because my husband doesn't really know what's going on, he wants to leave his best friends house and go see his mommy because she is throwing a fit that he isn't spending the day with her! So now my husband's best friend is trying to convince my husband to stay at the house and ignore his mother!

I texted his mother and said you are about to ruin all this hard work we have spent and are making your son feel like crap because he has to choose between his friend and wife over his mother or vise versa. She replied back with, "what do you expect I am his mother, and I'm more important" so I asked her if she would just tell him that he can see her tomorrow and she replied with, "no, today is the only day that works for me, why don't you all reschedule your thingy for next weekend?"

I hate this woman, I'm about to tell her she is no longer welcome in the delivery room!! What would you do?