My boyfriend and I have been together almost 8 years, were pregnant with our 3rd child, own a house together and we have been through ALOT! (Death of his mom, my dad and step mom, being ripped off majorly) I'm only 24 and he is 28. I feel like he just doesn't want to get married. We have talked about it a year or two ago and he said he wanted to get married but didn't want to feel pressured, or mutual friends always used to talk about it, our child hood close friends got married and now my other friends are planning their wedding. I don't want to bring up our future plans incase I pressure him but jeez! It's like the last step! I already told him last time we talked that if we got engaged I'd like a long engagement anyway (maybe 2 years) to just enjoy it, but I feel like it's never gonna happen and it makes me sad. What would you ladies advise?! 😕