So we were trying to conceive last September for about 7 months no luck.    In that time I had all the works done with testing the hubby too.   I had a hcg (i think it called) done anyways my grandmother passed away.  from September to February it was a horrible time for us in those months my grandmother was diagnosed with caver  and shortly passed away in February 2016.   I was extremely stressed and we ended up putting the whole ttc thing off I focused on getting myself better and trying to lose weight and wanted to get on the nuva ring for about 3-6 months.   Started the nuva in April.    And we decided to try again.  Took my nuva out in August.   I called my doctor to see if she wanted to do any blood work ect.    The last time ttc they kept telling me it was a timing issue.   They can't see anything wrong.   My progesterone levels were a little low.   The first time we tried I was on clomid only into 3-4 months of trying.    At the beginning of all of this last September I missed my period I've never missed a period I have always been on time and normal.   They didn't seem concerned and said it happens anything can cause it.     Now they want me to come in for a annual pap.   And talk to a fertility doctor!     I feel like I'm left in the dark like they think something is wrong and won't tell me.    I told her I haven't even really been actively trying for a year.   I didn't think I need to talk untill after trying for a full year!   Now I'm stressing.   What does everyone think.   Maybe I'm taking it the wrong way? And I shouldn't feel concerned.   When I told them I haven't been trying for a year they said they could kill 2 birds with one stone.  😞.  I'm so confused!!!