Soooo idk if anyone will See or read this.. This is the first time I posted and glow I noticed everyone else gets a lot of good responses and feedback I'm hoping I get the same. Please I'm not on here to tear anyone down so please don't do it to me. OK so I am 19... I have been in a serious relationship with my now ex-boyfriend for the past five years of my life. He ended up being a terrible human and we finally parted ways. I've been single for almost a year now and have really found my self and taken time. I have been off and on tinder. I'm a preschool teacher and I'm going to school to master in early childhood education. I'm not a partier. Im a one beer and that's it kinda girl. I'm very mature and had to grow up a lot quicker then others may age...I LOVE children. I want many of my own. And I'm just ready to find that someone special someone and build a life. I started talking to this guy, he's 25 he has a 5 year old son. He had him really young. Moms not in the picture...he has full custody, He's a great guy and a WONDERFUL father. We have been texting and just have so much in common. We have some mutual friends, and plan on going on a date soon. I've been getting a lot of shit from other people telling me that I'm too young I should be with somebody my age who doesn't have baggage. And that I have my whole life to live. My thing is, he's perfect for me. I'd really like to see where it goes. We are practically the same person. He made a mistake that wouldn't even call a mistake cause his son is wonderful and j believe all children are blessing. he was young and he's been a man enough to be a TERRIFIC father. I have done a lot of stupid shit in my time and very much could be a mother right now. THANKGOD that didn't happen. I don't care about him having a son. It truly DOES NOT BOTHER ME. I just wanna make sure I'm not being some crazy girl going after an other guy. It's all just circumstances . Please let me know what y'all think. I was very happy before people got judgmental