I'm 20 years old and my boyfriend is 35. I'm going to get straight to the point ... My boyfriends sex drive is not that great. Most of the time I initiate sex because I'm horny all the time. We live together and have a good relationship but I can't understand why sex is an issue. At least to me... I'm young, should he want me more?!! I don't understand. I mean, he's always tired and I get it but I'm starting to feel insecure about myself. One time he told me he didn't see me as an object. That never left my mind. I don't know if it's because his tired all the time or whats really going on? I hardly ever give him head, I used before all the time, Even when he was driving but since he doenst seem to be into sex so much I stopped doing all those things. He brings it up sometimes but I tell him he doesn't try and it's always me plus he hardly ever eats me out. I know he isn't cheating because he shows me a lot of affection and love. Treats me right and respects me but WHY IS SEX AN ISSUE?