Significant Other Issues

Emma
Okay random I know but does anyone have issues with there SO. Mine likes to drink and tonight our son was crying while I was getting dressed from my shower and I knew it was because he was hungry he fell asleep eating and didn't eat much anyways my SO yelled hey at me from across the room like it was going to stop him and then when I said don't yell at him he is probably just hungry he said don't spoil him then! This has never happened before! Any advise would be great please don't bash!