Girl code?

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I've been best friends with my girls for 15 years( since elementary school) and recently I've met one of my girls and she called a guy that she likes ( she told me he likes her back). We were hanging and chilling in the suburbs and just chatting with some wine on the side, turn out we have so much in common and would have a laugh about random stuff. They don't have that chemistry when they talk it's just physical. He told me he likes me and then my friend got upset and interrogated him, he told her he was testing I guess ( when I was in the bathroom) but kept on telling me how he likes me and wants to get to know me.. Umm, I like him.. should I respect the girl code and just turn a blind eye?

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Id stay away for awhile at least til your friend starts liking someone else, a guy isn't worth losing a friend over!

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I would definitely stay away, at least for awhile and see how things go with them. If he isn't in to her, let him break it off and pursue you. If that happens, you should talk to her first and make sure she is ok with it, anything else, and you might risk losing a good friend. Boys come and go, good friends are hard to find. Not to mention, I don't like that he is telling you both something different....he could just be trying to increase his odds of getting laid :/

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If you feel something and he continues to pursue you, I wouldn't hold back. I was in this situation four years ago, and two of my best friends had dated my now-boyfriend. I talked it out with them, and they were very mature and had my best interest in mind and told me to go for it. They didn't let me let the love of my life slip away and I'm so grateful!

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Go for it.

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Stay by both sides, dont intervine, she got there first.  And if it all falls through with them, then step in, maybe ask?  But she got there first... Let her try first.