Who you are in bed and who you are in life, don't have to be the same. In life I'm a confident more than capable career woman who takes the lead on everything. In the bedroom I like my spouse to show me he's the man in charge. Nothing wrong with either of those things. His strength and ability to make me squeal are huge turn ons for me. That doesn't make me less of a confident and strong woman the rest of the time.

I'm apart of the BDSM lifestyle. I'm a switch, which means I like to be dominant and submissive. Like April said, get your freak on. There's nothing wrong with it. Kinky sex is the best sex.