New relationship baggage

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Im so exhausted and emotionally drained from my last relationship, long story short I put my everything into this ex & he broke up with me over a bogus excuse and I got together with a wonderful guy. This guy is so sweet, hes 100% everything ive always wanted and needed and im having such a hard time loving him. Im so confused as to why. Today he told me he didnt know how to tell me he wanted me ( His ex cheated on him ), he told me sex isnt the same and he doesnt know why. I feel like were both in the same pit of being emotionally exhausted yet were desperate to make it work. Someone please give me some advice im so lost 😢 Is it because im afraid of being hurt again? I feel like im the only one this has happened to. Please leave some advice below! Anything would be appreciated, Thankyou!

RE: He had been single for 11 months & I had for 6 before we got together. He was with his ex for 2 years & I had been with mine 3 & 1/2.

Thankyou ladies