My boyfriend of a year and I have just broken up because of college and focusing on school. His biggest fear is financial insecurity so I understand how it is more important than me at this time. We are still best friends but don't share the sexual part in our relationship anymore. We still hang out at his house and see each other in school but we aren't with each other constantly anymore or involved in any sexual relations. We both aren't looking for another relationship and see that if we do get together in the future then "that's cool." Recently while I was at his house he locked the door to his room and told me that we needed to talk. Three years back I had been arrested for stealing at Macy's and haven't stole at all until last week, the week after we broke up.  I was at the mall with his sister and I stole a couple makeup items and a bracelet from a store. I told his sister and she told him about it. Anyway, he talked to me for about an hour and forced me to tell him the reason why I steal things and why I started up again and my excuse was that I do it to fill a void in my happiness. I promised myself i would never do it again and he told me that he only cares about me and is having this talk with me because he doesn't want me getting into any more trouble. He said he doesn't want me to continue that and all of that stuff about his sister. It was a serious talk that lasted for about an hour and a half and it ended up with me crying being and feeling vulnerable and embarrassed which I should be. He told me to give him a hug and I replied i smdidnt deserve one. We ended up hugging and cuddling in his bed. (NO SEX) and he kissed my forehead. He said he is unsure of his feelings for me at this point in time but I want to know what you guys think! Thanks so much for taking the time to read this all ☺️