I was drinking with a couple of my friends and sex obviously became the subject. I've been with my husband five years and my friends have been engaged for a bit. Any ways they were talking how they have to fake orgasms and they'd wish their men would listen to them and understood there needs have to be met as well. I was quiet most of the time and when I told them I never had to worry about that my husband always makes me have an orgasm before there is even penetration. And even then he always gives. Causing me to orgasm helps him achieve his. Well my friends didn't believe a guy could be that good in bed and that selfless. Is it really that strange?