So yesterday the guy im talking to amd i were just having our funny regular conversation about nothings and then he said he had to go and said goodbye well a hour later he texted me saying hi and basically asking me if we can be friends well after he did it i was hurt because we tell each other we love each other and i know i love him but he jasnt asked me out and so back the story he asked me if i wanted to be friens and i said sure we can be and then he said really?😂😂 with the laughing faces and then said i was just asking u what u wanted to do just to find out he was joking he has made jokes like this for a while actually last month i didnt talk to him for two months because he hung out with my former best friend alone and didnt stand up for me when his friend embarrassed me saying in front of all of our friends and his brother "he dosent like u" and since he didnt say anything i actually thought he didnt like me he also jokes around about liking other girls and loves to play with my emotions and heres an example when we were hanging out he would look at girls as they were walking by and say she has a nice ass and he said about one in particular that she should spread her legs and then tell me im flat he makes me self concious about my body and sometimes hurts me alot because i feel like im mot enlugh for him and today is my birthday and i didnt tell him so he called me a jerk for not telling him but i just i feel like crap and honestly i know yall r going to say thats not love but i love him and im tired of being hurt and telling him how i feel just for it to go out the other ear so i know i need to end this but are there any other ways to fix this because i wanna make this work but i know my worth and if in the end he isnt willing to make me feel good then imma leave his ass