Ttc with PCOS

I was diagnosed with PCOS a few weeks ago and my husband and I have been TTC for about 10 months. I am so upset but at the same time I'm glad I know why we haven't been getting pregnant now. I'm on Provera now and about to have day 3 and 21 labs and an ultrasound In the next week or so. We have an appointment in two weeks for the doctor to review everything and decide on which to put me on- Clomid or Metformin. Any advice or thoughts? I've been so overwhelmed and just feel so bogged down and sad. Trying to not let it overtake my life until we know more. Anyone feeling the same or have positive recommendations for me?