So I was starting to plan a baby shower myself because no one said anything. Then my aunt calls me mad because she said my family was planning one but they wanted to surprise me. I was relieved, but I let her know there are people outside the family I want to be invited. She told me to make her a list.

Now when she told me this she said that it was going to be October 15, she just wasn't sure of the time. Now she's saying she hasn't gotten a set date and keeps making excuses about why she hasn't gotten the list of friends and their contact info from me. Mind you I see her at least twice a week. I'm just really getting frustrated because I'm a control freak and this just seems so unorganized. Should I just tell her forget it, and plan it my self? Or should I give her a little more time?

Signed,

A perfectionist Virgo