So I need some advice. This is a long story

I'm not really sure how to say this. I'll try to explain the best I can I would like some advice from personal success stories. So here's how it starts november 2012 I got pregnant. On birth control. I stopped taking the birth control immediately. I lost the baby in January 2013. Since then I have not had a regular cycle on my own without the help of provera. Recently I've also gotten clomid. I only took it for one cycle in November. I kinda lost hope when it didn't work. I thought for sure it would. I know I shouldn't have stopped trying. But anyway I got the clomid refilled and I have a bottle of progesterone at home filled and ready to be taken. I also have an rx for my provera still. I haven't gotten it filled since November. I'm wondering if to get my cycles going again should I go ahead and use the progesterone just to use it up or should I get the provera filled again? I did have my own cycle in March early march. It came on it's own. I've been trying to let my body fix itself but I don't know what it's doing. I almost feel like forcing it will make it less likely to happen. I've also noticed the past two months (once two weeks before my period last month and two weeks after my period) strong sharp ovary pain in my left side. It used to happen to me when I was young before I started my birth control (tri-sprintec the pill) I'm unsure if it's ovulation pain or if it could be a cyst or what. I need to have a dr appointment to find out but I've got a very busy schedule. My boyfriend and I have been bding almost every night if not every couple days. I've taken two pregnancy tests in the past two weeks both negative. I took them because my period was about 30 days ago however that's not new for me. My last cycle was like 92 days or something crazy. I just can't keep having 3 month cycles it's literally driving me crazy but I want to have my OWN regular cycles not forced by hormones I take. It's so frustrating. If anyone has advice that would be greatly appreciated. I'm also a type one diabetic. Have been for fourteen years and the reason according to my gynecologist that I don't ovulate is that I have "lazy ovaries" in laments terms.