The other day my hubs and I were at subway for supper before we headed out for state fair. He told me that while we had been at the county fair not long ago we had been in the grandstand and a group of boys with one girl walked by. When they walked by my husband said he heard one of them whisper " she's hot!" and one guy said "did you see how big he is?". Why do some people make comments like that? I know im hot. I know my husband is bigger than some guys. But seriously, I love my husband the way he is. I like to refer to him as my big cuddly teddy bear. It hurts other people when you make comments like that and think they cant hear you. Just a piece of advice- before you make a comment referring to a persons weight, either wait till your out of earshot or dont say it at all.