Lazy husband.

My husband is driving me crazy! His lazy! He works, but once he steps foot in our front yard it's like all his motivation has been zapped & disappeared. I'm a stay at home mum and I know people say it's 'my job' to do everything, that's exactly how my husband feels to but to me this is his kids & his home as much as mine and he still needs to put effort in. The thing I hate most is he assumes my days are easy and i do nothing but lay in bed, sit around & relax. I must miss Sadie the cleaning lady spending everyday singing and dancing whilst cleaning our home & mainly after him Zzzz even on his days off he does NOTHING. Literally! I've tried the 'stop doing everything for him method' and that just left more of his laundry piling up, dirty dishes in the sink, his crap in every room aargh I just don't know what else to do. I'm so over it and it's making me depressed to the point I just want our, like right now! Anyone else have any positivity come from a lazy husband