Husband did nothing for anniversary... Again

Rant warning and maybe in need of some advise ...We've been married for two years and together for almost 6. Today marks our two year anniversary. Anywho... I went all out for him as usual. I decorated our mirror with hearts and arrows pointed at him saying "handsome hubby alert", I cleaned and vacuumed his jeep and put hearts all over it with things I love about him. I got him tickets to a comedy club for tomorrow. I asked my husband what he did today to make me feel like I was appreciated and he said happy anniversary and smiled. Like.... Seriously. He forgot to get me or say anything on Valentine's Day. He was at the store after I showered him with his goodies all day long.  I could've sworn ge would've came back with a card or some flowers from my garden. Nothing.  I'm feeling really hurt. Am I over reacting that he doesn't seem to care one bit about me during those  special occasions? How would you feel if your husband blew off your wedding anniversary and Valentine's Day every year?