What did you do when you found out he cheated?
I lived with a guy for two years. I thought we were crazy about each other. We had such fun. He treated me like a queen, spending thousands on gifts and always being such a gentleman. During the final 6 months of our relationship, his ex-girlfriend came back from overseas and started needing "light bulbs changed" and all sorts of other after hours services. His behaviour got nastier and nastier, but sometimes more loving than ever before. I was so confused. Of course he denied anything was going on when I asked him if he was seeing her. He told me I was going nuts to believe he was cheating but over the months my intuition was telling me he was, but he was so sneaky that I just couldn't prove it. After three months of this, I was seriously traumatised - and then I decided to find out for myself, realising he wasn't strong enough to be honest. One Saturday he "went shopping" (he hated shopping) and I followed his car, only to see him fetch her and her son from a previous relationship. I followed them again and watched them set up a picnic in the local park, obviously settling in for the afternoon all cozy and kissy under a blanket. It really hurt.
The house we lived in had three separate garages, there was an inter-leading door between his two. He always kept the empty one locked and when I wanted to used it to store stuff in it, he suggested the stuff would be safer inside the house. He always told me the 3rd garage was empty. Well, while they were happily picnicking, I hired a guy from the local locksmith and opened up the 3rd garage. It was packed to the roof with her boxes. So I spent the rest of the day distributing the boxes to the local orphanage, places of safety, and basically anyone on the street. It took me almost 4 hours. I was exhausted and somewhat guilty but my over-riding feeling was a mixture of relief and justice. A few weeks later, he had been out "shopping" again and came home to "fetch his bank card" (which I had seen him take with him) I was planting in the garden. He stood next to me looking so pale that he was almost yellow - no colour in his lying cheeks. He asked me if I had been in the third garage. I replied, "What would I want to do in there? It's empty, isn't it?" Empty it was. I moved out a week later.
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