pacifier help!!! please!!!

Melissa
Yes? No? My son is 3 weeks old. I vowed not to give him a passy and not allow him to suck his thumb. I've done well so far, but the constant need to "feed" at night is killing me. The lack there of sleep is hard. I keep being told "just hold on you can do it." But the sleep sheep are calling my name. I'm looking for input on other ways to sooth baby at bedtime. I want to hold out on the passy but if I can't figure something out shortly, I may cave. Looking for some advice!! Thanks for the help!