Who was ready first to start trying again after loss?

After experiencing a miscarriage who was ready to start trying to conceive first. Did you or did your husband first started talking about being ready. Or did you both start to feel ready about the same time.

I think I am going to be ready again before my husband. We both have taken our loss really hard. Just with talking with him and his feelings and knowing how I feel I think that I am going to be ready to try again sooner than him. But we talked and when Dr lets us know when it is okay that we go back to normal sexual activities that we will not prevent (no birth control, I don't want to go back on it) but we also will not be actively trying by troy.g to track ovulation anything like that and that we will let nature decide on its own.

I was just wondering how you and your husband/boyfriend/spouse have handled the topic