I'm in a LDR with my boyfriend who happens to be a widower and is an amazing father to a 10 year old boy who I absolutely adore. We have been dating for a year now (he's been widowed for almost 2 years) and I finally met his son 3 weeks ago for the first time. His son and I hit it off. To the point where he'd run into the living room after he got off the school bus and show me everything he did in school. The 2 day I was there my BF was putting him to sleep and I stayed in the kitchen when his son came back down and said to me can you come put me to bed with daddy. I looked at my BF and said ok I'll come. And both my BF and I put him to bed together for the week I was visiting. When I came back to the east coast, they live in the MIdwest, his son Facetimed me and said I was the most exciting thing in his week. 2 days later I got some drawings he made with "we miss you" all over it. The 3 of us, his son my BF and I have a routine now for the past 3 weeks. He calls me after school and before bedtime. He recently asked me when I was coming back to visit. He said he didn't miss me bc we talk everyday but at the same time he does. My BF wants our 3-4 month visits to be a once a month visit.