Do you love more or feel differently about your first born

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I love all my babies equally. They each have a different personality and unique skills. Also each one test my patients equally as well. I love seeing how different they are and how they take their own paths.

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Well~ seeing how he will be my first and I haven't experienced otherwise yet.....XD Yes, I will have special feelings towards him.

:P But I will love all my children equally when that time comes. ^^ Soooo excited!

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I don't love my first born more than my other children. Just a bit different because he's autistic. He needs extra time and attention sometimes

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I have a different love with my first because my second had a genetic disorder which caused her bones to break easily i saw her in a different way i saw her struggling everyday I couldn't hold her as I wanted because of wanting to prevent any more fractures and i was told almost everyday to enjoy every minute with her as it could be her last so the love i have for her is COMPLETELY different to the love i have for my first I'm not saying i love one more than the other 💖

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My relationship with my son is hard. It was a hard pregnancy and he was a hard baby for the first year, then he started to act weirdly at 3yo and it was hard again. Turned out he was diagnosed adhd. Now for me it's a psychological barrier I'm trying to work through on responding to him instead of reacting. I was always on edge and always stressed and tired and cranky and now my son is balanced out and his life is on a schedule now I'm working on me. It also doesn't help that I've had G.A.D since I was 15 but didn't have it properly diagnosed and treated till a few weeks ago when I was 27. So just because my relationship is harder with my 7yo son then it is with my 11mo daughter doesn't mean I love them any differently or any less then the other.

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