So I have a problem my new guy that I'm with is on the rather large size the first time we had sex he tore me but now that doesn't happen but I want to take all of him but when we try it doesn't go so well we have tried multiple positions to ease the pressure but at this point I'm getting frustrated because I want to be able to enjoy it without it being painful so I need some suggestions on what to do to make this situation better so please Ladies Help!