How to regain your power in a relationship .

Kiara • Pursuing my dreams
Hello , 
​My boyfriend & I have been dating for about 6 months .. I'm so in love with him & feels he will be my husband one day . But right now we are really going through it. I'm a spoiled brat from New York with a fiesty attitude ( Scorpio ) also he's a country southern guy ( libra ) who expects me to just submit .  I kinda played that role because I don't want to lose him but for us to be happy I feel I need to being a stop to this cycle . How can I regain my power & work on my attitude ? I want this to work .. Thanks ladies !