Sex: How did it hurt?

Question

Hey girls! 
So my boyfriend and I tried having sex for the first time but we stopped because I was a little uncomfortable. I wasn't sure if what I was feeling was the right feeling. It wasn't him it was me. But when he tried to put it in it was a pinching feeling. Is that what it's supposed to feel like? It was my first time so I kinda freaked out internally. I can't talk to my mom about this kinda thing so I am turning to you guys. (I'm 18). Thanks!

Answer

Yeah it's gonna hurt the first few times. You're just gonna have to do your best to push through it.... And learn to relax too. It'll feel worse if you're nervous because your muscles will tighten and it'll feel more painful... Just learn to relax and try again and again until it feels right. But try and push through the pain a little bit...

Answer

If you trust each other, then just let it happen. He should be cognizant of your feelings and go at a pace that you're ok with. Its gonna hurt a little the first time, its likely you'll bleed a bit but if hes the one you want to do this with, then let it be. If it helps, do a little foreplay first.

Sex: How did it hurt?

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