Okay so i am 17 wks 2 days and recently i just do NOT want to have sex with my SO. His sex drive is out of this world and if it were up to him we'd be doing it multiple times a day- hence the reason I am pregnant in the first place. Anyway, he always wants oral and to have sex and sometimes I do it because I wanna make him happy but i have no desire to have sex and he gets all pissy and doesnt want to talk to me when I say no. Which then makes me feel pressured into saying yes but at the same time its like, its my body i understand he wants to do and i WOULD LIKE to give it to him, its just my body doesnt feel great about it. My pregnancy has been very easy other than the fact that i get nausea every two seconds so i dont want to do oral with him because i gag and i dont want to throw up. And the movement of sex and all that sometimes gives me nausea. I havent had a rough pregnancy like i said but i have this stomach and i feel heavy and wear sweatpants and tshirts all day because thats the only stuff i have that fits still, and i just dont feel sexy....many reasons...he doesnt give me any issues so its not like im upset with him...i just dont know what to do when he gets mad that I say no.... 😔
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