Is it normal to be emotional the first time having sex after a loss? I had an ectopic pregnancy and lost my baby and tube when I was 5 weeks along. I have had 2 healthy pregnancies resulting in our beautiful daughters and this pregnancy was our first loss. This happened about 3 weeks ago and physically I'm fine, but emotionally I'm still not ok, I though I was. My doctor gave me the green light to start having sex again and I felt confident and really ready to be intimate with my husband again. I have been needing to feel intimate with him again. Well we had sex last night and within a minute I was crying. I felt a heap full of emotions from sadness, guilt, love, happiness (being passionate with my husband again), but the main emotion that took over was sadness and guilt. My husband was very comforting and made sure I was ok. Is this normal? Is it going to be this way for a while? It emotional hurts more than I expected.