My fiancé travels a lot for work. Now they're telling him that they will pay him more if he lives in Ohio 10 days out of the month, every month. (We live in Florida) I'm due in November with our first child. He asked me what I thought.. I said I thought it was fucked up and I know the owners wouldn't leave there families for 10 days out of the month every month. He already works his ass off and is barley home as it is. Now he's mad at me because I said I'm not okay with it. But why did you even ask me what I want when you already made your decision? Am I being selfish?