Do I have a right to be upset?

Question

Story: So my bf hasn't worked in a year and I'm between jobs at the moment, just getting by with babysitting money. I pay for everything, he hasn't paid for anything for more than a year. 
I made like 80 bucks the other night and I was saving it to get a haircut or wax or something, but I decided to treat my bf and buy him a hard drive.  
He got a labouring job for the next few weeks, and I asked him what he plans to spend his first pay check on, and he said, "well I get paid the same week as this new game comes out". 
I was pretty hurt. So I coyly asked him, "oh I would have thought after spending my pay on something for you, you would return the favour". He didnt seem amused. And answered, "we'll see".
Do I have a right to feel a little betrayed? Or am I just being selfish?

Edit: I don't ever expect things things in return, I didn't even expect he'd get a job when I bought him a present. I just want to be treated and taken care of for the first time in a long time. Considering I haven't gotten any anniversary or birthday presents in the 3 years we've been dating, I think it's about time I expect something to happen.

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Guys, i dont think shes all that interested in recieving something in exchange so much as having her feelings reciprocated. She cares about him enough to concider his needs before hers and its nice if he feels the same way. 
That being said, men in our society are entitled as hell, you may have been supporting him this whole year at great sacrifice to yourself and he probably thinks its no big deal because men are raised to expect this type of behavior from women, specially if he's young. So if he doesnt take this chance to show you he's appreciated all youve done for him its up to you to decide how to handle things, he may be either too immature or too selfish and you may be either understanding of this or over him.

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I know that it seems like common sense to most ladies... But men really don't think like we do. That being said - don't spend your money on him if you're expecting something in return. Think about it before you buy him anything - just think "will I be upset if he makes money and doesn't buy me something?".

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I think that's a bit selfish. That's his money that he made. Just because you spend your money on him doesn't mean that he's obligated to do so as well. Don't ever buy anything for someone and expect something in return. Just leave him be.

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if you're buying him things to get something in return , i don't think you're doing it with the right intentions . do it , because you love him . not cause you expect something in return . what if he was gonna surprise you , and you just killed it . lol

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Just saying, don't give him anymore. But I'd be upset too

Do I have a right to be upset?

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