I'm so sick and tired of people telling me I'm really big for 34 weeks. I've only gained about 20 pounds so far and it's literally all in my belly. I'm not swelling anywhere nor has my face gotten plump. Today while spending time with one of my friends shopping for something to wear to my shower she kept saying, "You're a lot bigger than I was. I can't believe you're so big. She's probably gonna be like 10 pounds, you've gotten so big." Which really pisses me off because she gained 70 pounds during her pregnancy. We've always generally been about the same size. I didn't say anything to her because I didn't want to hurt her feelings whilst she was stomping all over mine. I'm really just so over it. I don't know what to say or do anymore. (I also have a cyst on my ovary about 8 to 10 inches, and that could be what's making me appear so "big")