Venting about my pcos.

My partner and I are trying to conceive. We are both ready and commited, we have good stable jobs a beautiful home and we are so happy. I was diagnosed with a brain condition a year ago which can gradually get worse and need surgery. I was also diagnosed with pcos when I was 13. It never gave me any issues once I was started on the pill, until now. We made the choice to start a family now while we are young and healthy and before the possibility of my head issues getting to the point of surgery. It has been 7 months. and nothing. I know this is due to my pcos I know it but I'm to scared to go and seek help. To scared that I'll be told I shouldn't be worrying about this now and come back in 10 years. 😔 every month becomes more heart breaking. I know 7 months is not long but I can't imagine being left feeling so heart broken for years to come. 
I know there are women out there who have had this feeling for years and I honestly don't know how you cope.....