UPDATE: I read all the comments and you all are right! Who is she to tell me I cant do it? So I spoke to my husband and we both agreed to have it in November after Thanksgiving before we only have a 4day weekend & we're driving down. SO I told my mom and she had me speak to my sister inlaw and I told her straight up that its my first baby, I want a party for the gender reveal and it's in November so if you dont want to attend then thats fine but you are welcome to come. And she told me in an additude that shes going to change her plans because Im having a party. 

I feel like shes trying to make me feel bad but I actually dont. 

Cant believe I was going to not have a party or a shower cause of her🙄 oh well. 

NOV. 25th,2016 PARTY PARTY PARTY! 

Its going to be great!