he always cums before me... TMI

My boyfriend has been wanting to have super rough sex lately almost too rough he just shoves it in without even touching me down there first or anything. He likes that and I've told him multiple times that I hate it. Anyway I always squirt everywhere idk why it just happens, but that's not me orgasming. I get on top of him and start riding because that's the only way I can cum, but he will always cum right before I do and it sucks 😢 I told him last night "I never get to cum anymore" right after he did and he told me to get off of him and fuck someone else....but we've been together for 6 yrs and have a baby lol I only want him just want to have my orgasm too!!!