JUDGEY WOMEN!! **🙄😡 if a woman & her SO are TTC but are also unemployed would you tell them that they have no business TTC despite not knowing the facts!????,

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I'm so tired of women telling me because I don't work that I don't have a right to have a child!! Are you GOD????
******for the record me and my SO have enough money if we decided to have a baby tomorrow... I just don't see why I should have to disclose this to the world*******
These women take it upon themself to comment saying find a job or get married... I NOW have a job but I didn't before because I didn't need to work nor was I on benefits, so RELAX!!!!!!
Even if I was broke your not giving me money for nappies and essentials so shut up and stop sticking your nose in - giving your opinion like I asked for that specifically.

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im unemployed and 38 weeks pregnant. im also single because my ex was a deadbeat. but even alone im prepared for my baby and have money saved for future baby necessities when i need more. its absolutely nothing to do with anyone else.

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No one knows your situation so it's not their business. I like the fact you put in the post are you god? Haha, I see it as if God believes the child will be loved and taken care of he will send you a beautiful blessing. My husband is currently unemployed and I'm working but that doesn't mean in April when our baby arrives well be in the same situation, and even if we are the baby will still have a roof over its head food in its belly, cloths toys ect, and people who love him or her unconditionally. People are so quick to judge someone else before they know anything. Even the things made to help such as wic and things like that, if you say your pregnant and unemployed they automatically give you a look of disgust. There's always going to be someone judging us or turning their noses up, but it's good to know there's always some decent people that will support you.

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I too had someone tell me the same not on this app but it was still asked.  I don't work but have enough money to take care of myself and my 5 children.   And nope not on assistance either.  People get on here and talk big stuff.  People come here for conversation and sometimes advice from ladies that are also trying to concieve. If ladies have nothing to say that's positive they shouldn't say anything at all

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I started ttc with a job a car a house the works then after 4 years of everything perfect I get a bfp within 2 weeks the car is pooped I lost my job and house is red zoned yes by the time my lil guy arrived everything was back to normal but you just never know what's around the corner I can tell you I had some people judging me . Funny enough the car pooped out  again I told my partner to pick a test up on way home lol sure enough bfp that night

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I don't judge. From my own experience ttc didn't happen over night, been ttc for 2 years and that's after my husband wanted to wait till things were more financially stable for us. I wish I knew 4 years ago it would be this hard bc we could have been trying all along while also trying to get finances in order.

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They want to act like they know the situation when they don't. It frustrates me too

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If you come on here.. Posting your business.. Your going to receive opinions and advice from others whether it's something you want to hear or not.. That's how it is. If I was unemployed I wouldn't dare try to intentionally ttc. That's my opinion does it make me better than You? no not really.  It's just my opinion .. I was raised getting everything I need and more. I would never want to bring a child into this world to only give him or her anything less than want I got as a child. Babies are expensive period. With help babies can still be expensive. I wish good luck to anyone with no job ttc. It's not easy.

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No. i know a girl who told the guy ( one night stand)  that she was on birth control when she wasn't and got pregnant. No job no education still lives at home. 
I can't say she dose not deserve it because I would hate to know that why I have not been able to have one. It's terrible and o would not wish it on anyone except people who willingly get abortions enstead of adoption. ( not judging )

JUDGEY WOMEN!! **🙄😡 if a woman & her SO are TTC but are also unemployed would you tell them that they have no business TTC despite not knowing the facts!????,

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