wrong timing or too sensitive?
So right after SO and I finished having sex- I went to pee and got back into bed for cuddles- and he turns to me and says 'I told you to get rid of all that crap in the lube drawer and only keep the stuff we use- it's a turn off having to look for it'.
So I was a bit stunned by this- because, well so what? It didn't stop us from reaching the Big O...so what's the big deal?
'I don't know why you're looking at me like that it's not like I've said anything horrible. Otherwise you just have to use it yourself from now on- it's your problem anyway'.
To which I replied that it's a bit of a turn off having a UTI for 5 days...
Am I just being sensitive? It just felt like all the love and happy mood just drained immediately, and he was just pushing all responsibility of using lube on me- as if I get UTIs all on my own, so why should he have to risk losing his erection because of me and my problems?
It just hurt.
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