Has anyone else been married at the beginning of your pregnancy and divorced by the end? Was the father there for the birth? I am almost 11 weeks pregnant and getting divorced from my husband due to his incessant cheating, lying, and emotional and physical abuse. We also have a 2 1/2 year old daughter together. He has not called at all to even talk to our little girl since he left, and has told multiple people he does not want this new baby so he doesn't have to pay child support for it. We tried for 9 months, had to take clomid and have a laproscopic surgery to achieve this pregnancy. Going through all this pregnant is hard. How did you cope? How did your birth go? Does it get better? Let me know ladies.