is it wrong for me to ask for fore play?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and something that I have noticed is that he was wants me to give him head but he doesn't return the gesture. He won't finger me or go down on me, but he has no problem asking me for head. When I've talked to him about it, he start but only for one or two times after that, then it goes right back to the way it was. When I asked why he doesn't want to he tells me he doesn't know or because it's out of laziness, he "just wants to get to the sex." If that was the case then why does he ask for head. He makes me feel bad for being upset about it, but I'm not like him, just because I want to have sex doesn't mean I'm ready to go in an instant. I like fore play, I enjoy it, it makes sex better for me. But when I try to talk to him about it, all he hears is that the sex isn't good enough. The sex is great, but I don't get off every time and I feel like if fore play was brought in the. I would get off every time. Is he just taking it personally or am I in the wrong??