So trying to do something sexy for my man for his birthday. However, he absolutely hates lace. I'm trying to think of ways to surprise him but sometimes I can only imagine how he would act. Whenever I tell him we don't have sex as often as I'd like or I ask him to have sex with me I get laughed at and he says, "you're killin me smalls." Don't get me wrong, when we do have sex it's amazing. Any advice would be greatly appreciated !