My husband has a daughter with another woman, from before we were together. We get her every other weekend. I'm currently 15w with my first child, and my husbands family is driving me bonkers. They keep trying to get me to get used things which I don't have a problem with we get used stuff all the time we always go to consignment shops. But this is my first child, I won't get to have all the first experiences again so I really want to get most of the stuff brand new. His sister told me I was being psychotic and ridiculous. How is that being ridiculous? I think it's perfectly reasonable.