cumming inside me on birth control pill

i'm on my third month, i've never missed one, i've only had 1 accident where i forgot to take it until an hour after and i was told it was okay because i was freaking out crying. 

i really want my boyfriend to cum inside me i crave it so much, we've never done it and i think it's like a fetish of mine every time we talk about it i get dripping wet and that's how he dirty talks to me "just imagine my cum shooting into" and it gets me off. i want him to do it so bad, but he said he's scared and won't do it. can anyone tell me how safe it is so i can ease his mind and maybe get him to do it? thank you so much💗💗 i should clarify i do not want to get pregnant. (((update: i forgot to mention we had an accident while we were half asleep and still a little drunk and he was trying to put it in me and just immediately came all over me, me, not knowing, i shoved him all the way up there, he quickly pulled out and told me what had happened, i was so freaked out i had cried for 3 days after and that's when i took my pill an hour late and i didn't get pregnant, i took a test a few weeks after)))