Sorry this is really long. But I appreciate you taking the time to read it.

So my SO got a text from one of his friends, a girl(no past dating relationship with her), about getting lunch. I'm not worried about them doing anything because she is like a sister to him. I'm just really pissed off that he dropped what he was doing and is going to hang out with her, but won't spend time with me. I'm really jealous that she gets to spend time with him out some where and I don't.

And to top it all off, his dad keeps complaining that I'm not pulling my weight in the house. His parents live across the street and own the house we live in.

All I do is clean up after him and my 3 year old, cook and make sure the dogs are taken care of. Today, even though I'm sick, I vacuumed the whole downstairs, moved all the furniture and cleaned away all the cobwebs, and dusted. Also made my SO breakfast, that he didn't come down and eat until an hour later. I also finished all the laundry last night, while being sick. I folded and put away his clothes, even though he usually does it.

I'm trying so hard to do what I'm supposed to do, but it just doesn't seem like enough. Am I wrong to start having second thoughts about being with him?

I've also been talking to my stbxh. He wants me to come home and I'm starting to think I should, even though he treated me the way my current SO is sorta treating me. Like, not spending time with me, dropping everything for his friends and not helping around the house(especially when I'm sick). It's like I went from one failing relationship to another. Now mind you, my stbxh is 47 and my current SO is 29.

I just don't know what I'm supposed to do. I've talked to my current SO about spending time together, like watching a movie or going on a picnic. I've told him how I've been feeling and it just seems like he ignores it all.

Before he left, which was like 15 minutes ago, I told him we are watching a movie together tonight. He said okay, but it'll most likely not happen. Just like all the other times.

Any advice is appreciated. Thanks.