Should tax money go to paying for the disabled..

To collect? To help whether they manage to work or not?

K i have a very strong opinion on this but im going to hold back from stating mine as to not bias any answers here. My husband and i completely disagree and sometimes I wonder how i ever fell in love with the guy we are soso different!!! Lol but it is what it is. Anyways this topic came up and i voiced my opinion to him and he voiced his and wow i cant believe the things he thinks😲. Anyways what do you think? When i say disabled i dont just mean physically disabled i mean those that have severe learning disabilities that dont allow them to get normal jobs and if they do manage to get a job that pays minimum wage or what not and then have to pay childcare or other expenses should they be able to collect help from the govt to help them survive?