I'm 17 with my first child and me and my ex army on good terms so I moved and this guy I went to school with who I once dated is back in my life I really care about him me and the child's father doesn't even speak and I doubt he'll be there for the baby even if he says otherwise I don't wanna be harsh and just come out and tell him but I will say I'm strongly considering raising my little guy with my current boyfriend and leaving my ex in the past