How to avoid seeing family and boyfriends family?!

So i hate my family. they always cheated me like shit and a fly on a wall, Also to my boyfriends family, they could give a single fuck about me.... I want to live far away from everyone and be happy for once. But its hard to do that with 1 job and college and likewise to my boyfrind... I dont want to exist in their lives anymore,, Like i wish i never had a family. Not to be mean but i been abused and violently cussed at . Please help me..