People should just shut up sometimes

I'm really sick of my husbands family, every little thing we do is "wrong" or should have been done a different way. Never can it be "oh that's nice" or "looks good" always should have done it this way or that way or not at all. JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP!! I may sound rude wanting to say that but jeez they're driving me insane with their whole "our way is the best way" attitude.